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Dear Deb, I have been with my man for fifteen years now and he recently asked me to start giving him blowjobs. The problem is that I don't really like to do it. I never really know if I am doing it right. Can you help? - Rita |
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Dear Rita, It's great you're asking these kinds of questions -- it shows how much you care about pleasing your partner. It's also wonderful that he communicates his desires to you in a way that's encouraged you to want to go out and find solutions. There are tons of books, videos and websites that can help you feel more comfortable performing oral sex. Some of my personal favorites are a wonderful book called "Sex Tips for Straight Women from a Gay Man," by Dan Anderson and Maggie Berman, and a video by Nina Hartley called, "Advanced Guide to Oral Sex." You should be able to get the book at your local bookstore or Amazon.com, and the video online at Good Vibrations - www.goodvibes.com. It's also important that you learn how to take turns. Meaning, if you give him more oral sex, he needs to do something you desire or fantasize about in return. Click here for more about taking turns giving and receiving pleasure. Cheers, Deb
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